Tuesday, July 6, 2010

When will it be my turn?

Today was harsh. The first hour after my blood test was fine. I was hard at work (at home) knowing there would be lots of time. As the time got closer I couldn't focus. I was sweating and felt sick. We got the call with a BFN. I felt like someone stabbed me in the heart. I have been preparing myself for it because I just had a feeling it was not going to happen. DH is not taking it well. That hurts me even more. We talked about our frozen but I said "I am so sick of this and I don't want to do it anymore".
I will need time to heal. I usually want to go shopping but that didn't even sound good. I have been doing that a lot the last few weeks so maybe that is why. I feel so defeated and really don't think it will happen for us. I am scared. I also think about adoption and the roller coaster that will be if we go that route. I am just so tired of it all.


Wanna Bee said...

I'm so sorry Christine . . . the disappointment is too much to bear all at once, it's not over yet, give yourself time

Kaitake said...

I'm so terribly sorry for you both. My heart goes out to you. I hope you will be able to recover and plan for your future soon. Best wishes.